Nice Guys Finish Last?

I'm starting to think the old saying "Nice Guys Finish Last" is true. I've been taking notice of all these blogs and facebook notes about "n*gga's ain't sh*t", "Where are all the good men?" and "I'm through with men" and I sit back and think... damn are the nice guys invisible? Are there so many whack cats that the good guys go unnoticed? It totally amazes me that woman will endure so much punishment from the opposite sex and it still doesn't dawn on them that maybe... JUST MAYBE they should tweak their tastes just a little bit. I mean think about it... if it ain't broke, don't fix it, right? Well shouldn't that same meaning work in reverse? If you find yourself constantly shi*tted on by the same type of dudes somewhere along the line the pattern has to dawn on you.
Ladies you can really tell what type of things a dude is on if you pay attention to detail. They way they approach you, the way they talk to you, what they talk about you know stuff like that. If you want a good brotha don't get lost in the sauce of a fool-proof mouth piece; it ain't really that hard to tell if what we say is genuine or not.
Another HUGE thing is how do you conduct yourself when you are in the presence of the opposite sex. Sorry to be blunt, but if you act like a ho chances are you might get approached like one. Now ladies, I'm not saying you can't go out with your "freakem dress" and have a night out with your homegirls but I am saying there is a thin line between sexy and slutty and us dudes (gentlemen, pimps and playas alike)... we can pick up on that on site.
I'm just venting because it seems like us gentleman aren't getting enough attention on nowadays. You whack cats are making it hard for us to make someone happy because you have totally annihilated a ladies trust in the opposite sex. It's us that have to deal with the trust issues that previous cats have put in place. I'm just saying give us good brotha's a fair shot. I'm starting to truly understand Musiq's joint "Previous Cats" (which is posted below for you listening pleasure, lol)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xaDF0w_3Uj0